437. Commit To Make Money Online and Never Look Back!

On this episode, Nellie talks about the importance of commitment in making money online, highlighting that skepticism and resistance from the brain are common barriers. She stresses that achieving goals, such as crossing a marathon finish line or giving birth, involves significant effort and energy.  Nellie encourages "an 80% energy, 20% strategy" approach to success, noting that energy levels directly impact one's ability to market and build products. She encourages listeners to prioritize their mental and physical well-being to achieve financial stability and independence.

We will touch on: 

• Commitment to Making Money Online
• The Power of Energy and Strategy
• Challenges and Solutions for Busy Moms
• Community and Support in the Online Business School
• Motivation and Accountability
• Simplicity and Authenticity

Let's Take Action:

• Check in with yourself and assess your current energy levels.
• Commit to making money online and refuse to be a "burnt out, broke mama".

This episode is sponsored by Kristen Rourke with Busy Mom Bod. Check her out on social media and her amazing programs!!
Busy Mom Bod: https://stan.store/busymombod

Transcript

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The message that is like screaming through me. So I won't scream at you, but it's like screaming through me to really convey to you is like you're either in or you're out when it comes to making money online. And like, if you like, I also understand that until you've done it, your brain is going to resist like, it is going to resist. It's going to think, well, like, I don't have the time. I don't know how it's saturated. There's no way I can do it. I don't have the skills, right? I don't know what I would sell. Like your brain is doing that to you. Like it is literally stopping you from making money online and like, the only way that you can become a true believer is by doing it and committing to seeing it through. There is something to be said about like, accomplishing something, finishing something. Like, I'll never forget crossing the finish line at the half marathon. It like it was emotional. Like it like I can only imagine this year when I do the full marathon, because there's so much that you have to do to get to that moment that when it arrives. Like you, of course, you know that it's coming because you're running, you're literally running a half marathon. Like, of course, it's coming, but nothing can prepare you for the emotions or like when you give birth to your baby. Like, you know that baby is coming, but yet, like I remember when they pulled Boone out of my stomach because I had a C section, like, I wish, I do wish they wouldn't let me record in the or which I didn't, but I wanted to record that moment so much, just even For me, because I have it in my brain. And so, like, it plays in my brain, but the amount of love and emotion, oh my gosh, I can't even, like, put it into words, like, and it's like, of course, I knew that was that moment was coming. Like, I literally am laying there in the or they're cutting me up. I can feel the pressure and but like, again, like nothing prepares you for that moment. So it's like, These are the moments that, like, we live for as humans. Of like, accomplishing something, bringing something to life, literally, or bringing someone to life, we crave the completion, right? Like it's the cycle of nature, like we crave, the evolution, the completion, the finishing, the, you know, the accomplishment, the desire that you're wanting to be fulfilled. There was a point in time where I didn't know if we were going to be able to give pregnant and so, you know, it's just, it's just so powerful when, like, big things like that can happen, and even small things, like, when I finish a book, I feel accomplished. When, when I make money online, it does feel good. Like, especially if you have ADHD, you crave that dopamine, because you don't produce dopamine. And so the only way that I could fully Have you become a believer is by you making money online. And like, the only way we can do that is like you literally committing and saying, Nelly, I will, like, it took 10,000 tries to make the light bulb. Not that I wanted to take 10,000 tries for you, but like, there is some trial and error, there is some energy and effort needed. But like, if you're willing to put in the energy and effort, you will make money online. It may take a little bit of time. It may take a lot of time, or a little bit in between. Like, I can't guarantee when it's going to happen, but what I can't guarantee is that it is 1,000% possible in 2024 it has never been more possible, and like when we can start to look at social media and digital marketing and affiliate marketing and even service based businesses and anything to make money online from anywhere, the odds are actually stacked for success in your favor, because there's so many consumers that you're exposed to. Long gone are the days where you have to open up brick and mortar, you have to get, you know, health inspection that you have to get 20 team members right. Like, there was a time in the world where, like, you had to put in hundreds of 1000s of dollars to be able to open up a business, and that is no longer the case. And like that is huge for moms. Like that is huge the fact that you could make money in small pockets of time during. Back time, nap time, car, pickup, sleeping, right? Like, all of the things. Like, you owe it to yourself to make this happen. Like, and again, like, I'm not going to pay you, I'm not going to convince you. I'm going to keep moving forward with those that want to move forward, but like, I want you. I'm, like, almost talking to your brain. And so we're going to talk about this today, like how to actually make this happen. So I want to give a shout out to Kristen Roark with busy mama. She is, she is moving forward. She is literally been accomplishing so much, and I'm so proud of her. So please check out Kristen with busy mom. Bot is she has a squat challenge. You can work with her one on one. She's got some courses, some an e book, a playbook, like she is. She's doing it she is, and she lives her message of being a busy mom and equally like taking care of yourself. So give her a follow. Check out all of her offerings. She is truly amazing. So Kristen with Disney, Mama, thank you for sponsoring today's episode. Okay, so let's talk about like, okay, my brain is stopping me. That's the first acknowledgement of like, Okay, you're right. Like, I do owe it to myself to make this happen, and if you're already making money online, but maybe you've hit a plateau or a gap in like making money, or a dip in money, one it's normal, like, if you look at any publicly traded company, there's ups and there's downs. Now us wanting to go back up and doing like, specific things is super helpful. So I don't want you to, like, be like, Oh, well, Nelly says that this is normal. So I'm just gonna, like, let it ride, know that you can choose again and and see what feels good to you. But if you're not making money online and you want to make money online, I've got you if you're making money online, and you want to make more money online, or it to be easier, I've got you. So let's talk about this. You've got to get your brain on board. Your big money goals are 80% energy, 20% strategy. The strategy is important. Don't get me wrong, like you could have the best energy, but if we are putting effort into your marketing, it's you know, like you may have some success, but it's not going to be very predictable. So your energy is absolutely important, and your strategy is is important, but most people skip over the energy, and they don't know why they can't be consistent with their marketing. They don't know why they don't have the energy to build products, right? Like digital products, they they don't know why they don't have the energy to get on video or send emails to their list. Or think, think about the strategy, right? Think about their next steps. Um, so energy. Everything starts with energy and ends with energy, like energy, energy. Energy is everything. Try to argue with me. Please do because I would love to hear because, literally, I have seen this in my own career, when I have had the energy, when I've taken care of myself, guess what? The money explodes. I've seen it time and time again. I've watched other people. I've worked with other people. And when we can dial in the energy, doesn't mean that you have to be perfect. Doesn't mean that you have to be a size zero. It's like not that at all. It's literally having the energy, the mental clarity, the endorphins, right? The excitement, the motivation to work your business work, the basics, that's really what it comes down to. So when you can check in with yourself today, of like, what, where is my energy at, and how can I get it up, watch the magic start to happen. The strategy will start to feel so much easier the more that you take care of you, to take care of your mind, your body and your soul. I think that it all matters, and it's all connected, and it is challenging for busy moms. I'm not going to pretend that it's not I was up I think two or three times last night with food. They also woke up at 5am so like, it's it's real stuff, and I get it, but I refuse to be a burnt out broke mama, like I refuse. I refuse to do that to my children. I refuse to do that to myself, my husband, my team, everyone I work with, like, I refuse tell me in the comments, I tell, tell yourself, but like, say it out loud in the comments. Like, I refuse to be a burnt out broke mama, and then we've got to do something about it if you want. You know results fast. Just go through my 1k at seven days cash challenge and do the work. Like, do the work. It is absolutely free. Do the work that can get you some really fast cash, as long as you're willing to, like, put in the energy, put in the effort. People have gotten really great results in that seven day challenge. I literally send you multiple emails a day for free. You're welcome. So do that if you need fast cash. Do that when you're ready to build, like, your dream business. That's when you come into our online Business School. Like the 1k in seven days is like, it's a sample, right? Like that isn't sustainable long term. It's a way to get you some like cash quick. Because I do understand that it is like when you need it. It's nice to be able to get that cash quick. But to build a long, sustainable, scalable, successful business, we've got to build assets. We've got to keep working on your mindset. Keep working on your energy. You do need and deserve support, and so that's when you come into our online Business School. We are moving to annual tuition, only starting very, very soon, still super affordable, but if you're new, you'll only be able to join for a year. And the reason why is as I have been in the online space for almost over actually over seven years, because mama is almost seven, and I started before she was born, so over seven years, which sounds wild, but what I've noticed is people have the best intentions. I have seen this in myself at times too. They have the best intentions. If it's too easy to give up, they walk away, right? Like it's too if it's too easy for you're like, Oh, it's $1 or it's month to month, it's too easy. They'll be like, You know what I thought this online thing was for me, but I'm just going to go ahead and cancel. And so I do genuinely get sad when people have built assets with us, and then right before their tipping point, they cancel, and then, like, they're not doing anything, and I don't judge them for it, but it does make me genuinely sad for their future self, because I'm like, You were so close, like you were so close, like, I'll be fine, like, I'm not worried about the money, but like, genuinely, like, I'm in this for the people. And so it just, it does make me sad, and I've had to work on that of, like detaching and like letting go, but in order to help set you up for success, like, I want to work with people that are like, take my tuition for a year. I'm here. I'm ready to roll up my sleeves, because energetically, that's a vibe, and it's still super affordable, way more affordable than actually going to college. So like, we are moving that direction, and that is like, CEO decision, because I want to work with people that want to be here, that are going to put in the work. You'll be able to buy anything like all the car and do it like as a self study. But if you want to be like in our online school, with me, with our community, with my team, I want people that want to be there. It's really important to me, and so you committing to the year and going all in, will change your life. It will. It will absolutely change your life. When I have signed on the dotted line and committed to a mentor for a year, everything changes the minute I do it. Everything changes, and so that's who I want to attract, and so I did make that shift. So if you're like, I can't swing the year, we will still have scholarships available, and you'll be able to apply and wait for a scholarship. But nonetheless, it's still super affordable, even with the year tuition. But that is the reason why, and I wanted to explain that, because this does take time, this does take energy, this does take persistence, this does take trial and error. So many people come to me and they're like, tell me the magic formula, and I'm like energy and effort, like 80% energy, 20% strategy, and you gotta build the products, you gotta market, you gotta have the right amount of traffic, more than enough traffic, to be able to have this happen. But it will happen. Like, tell me why it's happening for so many people and why it can't happen for you right like so many people are making money online right now, so many people are making money on right online right now, in small pockets of times. So you've gotta get your brand on board. That is your job. But you also don't have to do this alone, and so to get you out of overthinking. Get you out of analysis paralysis. Get you out of this being on the sideline. Get into our online Business School. Literally, you can binge watch a bunch of things this weekend. You can ask questions. We have live class every single month. We bonus goodies every single Friday, which is really exciting. So like today, they got products that they can literally resell for 100% the profits. Isn't that so cool? So if you have questions, ask me questions. If you want a sneak peek into the school, we are happy to show you a sneak peek of everything that you get, because I know that that can, like, obviously, like, get you really, really excited. But the goal that we're doing is to help busy women make money in small pockets of time, primarily moms. So why not you? Why not now? Ask your questions. Don't delay, like, Whatever you do, whether you join our online business school or not. Make this happen. Make it happen for your kids. You say all the time that you're willing to do anything for your kids. Get Wealthy, for your kids, get healthy, for your kids. Do it for them. Literally, if you need to, like, carry around a photo of them and feel like I'm doing this for you. I'm doing this for you. I'm doing this for the for you. Like I literally look at my daughter and she is my inner child, like she is my inner child. I knew I was going to have a girl. I just knew I was going to have a girl. She is here for a very special purpose outside of even me, but we have this kindred bond that is like, I mean, you know, you know how it is, I'm biased, but she is my inner child, and I don't want to let her down. And I have worked on not having that be like unnecessary pressure, but more motivation. It does fuel me. It does give me energy. I look at both of my kids, and I want a different life for them. Like there was a time where I was charging groceries to my credit card. I didn't know how it's going to pay rent. I I didn't know, like, how I was going to make it all happen. I put myself through college like I I have struggled, and that's why this is so important to me. This is for everyday women, everyday moms, just normal people that want to, like, pay for their groceries, stress free. Maybe they want to go on a trip every now and then. They want to, like, splurge at TJ Maxx. But more than anything, they just want to have safety for them and their family, that financial independence, that financial safety, they just want to live a peaceful life. I used to think that I wanted all the bells and whistles, but I really don't like I took off my nails. I literally am wearing my daughter's Princess beach shirt and tennis shoes. Like, this is just me. Like, I may change every now and then, but like, you know this is like, as authentically me as possible, just super simple, super simple, and I have found so much peace in living a really simple life. And I want other women to feel that that's just really what we're on a mission to do. So reach out. Don't hesitate to ask, but you owe it to your brain to make money online. It does not have to be complicated, it does not have to be stressful, but you do. Got to put the energy and the effort in 80% energy, 20% strategy. Let's work on the whole 100% together. Okay, I love you. I hope you have a great day. You.