Passive Income for Mamas

360. Birthday Shenanigans #2: The Money Ladder

August 24, 2023 Nellie
Passive Income for Mamas
360. Birthday Shenanigans #2: The Money Ladder
Show Notes Transcript

Eeee!! And the juicy shenanigans continue on the podcast today. 

On today's episode of the Wake Up & Be Wealthy show, Nellie talks about the power of emotional connection to money.

She touches on:

  • The importance of getting emotional about money in a powerful way to change the narrative of the relationship with money.
  • The importance of prioritizing your goals.
  • The importance of taking teeny tiny tiny steps.

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Good morning mama. It is time to wake up and be wealthy. It is time for you to become rich a week it is time for more ease, flow and fun for you. It is time to build a life and business, you are madly in love with it, it's time to unlock the wealth codes needed to build your business with your dedicated host, me, Nellie Corvo Mellie Corvo. I am the CEO and founder of the wealthy mama movement. And I want to officially welcome you to the wake up and be wealthy show. I am the master at sales and social media with over 17 years of experience, building brands in multiple industries, resulting in millions of dollars night as mentored countless women from starting their businesses all the way up to multi millionaires. I am here to be your go to mama to help you build an iconic brand that you are proud of to create a massive passion and impact in the world. Without further ado, let's unlock today's episode. Enjoy. Welcome back to the show the birthday shenanigans helping you make more money with ease flow and fun. We are going to be getting in our fields today in the best way possible. And I think it's just so important when we are working on the energetics of money. And hopefully you are in that super juicy a want energy around money and we're working through it, the best way to do that is to truly start to make money moves teeny tiny money moves that aligned with one energy and before you know it, it will become so second nature and so embodied in you that it will feel amazing. And he'll just keep doing it more and more and more. So we do want to get emotional about our money in a really powerful way. Because when money is just an object, it can feel so weird as where we are emotional creatures as women, and we're emotional buyers, right. And so when we can really emotionally connect to money, and really get close to it and become best friends with it just as much as any girlfriend, it can start to really change the narrative of the relationship, right? Like, think about a best friend that you either have or had. And like that relationship does require effort, right communication, quality time, and so many other things for that relationship to thrive and money is no different. And we're always going to be going deeper. And the deeper you go, I really do believe one, money feels better. And also, I also think my coffee was just built by my German Shepherd on the floor. That's That's lovely morning to start. Oh, it's always interesting. So we can always go deeper. And when we go deeper, it feels better. And I truly do believe you make more because money wants to be in the hands of powerful women. And a lot of times since we aren't choosing to get in our emotions and going deeper, then it like it's it's really a repellent for money. And we've been told so much money is evil, right? You must work really, really hard to make really good money. And a lot of women either have kids, and we don't want to give up, you know, extra time to make more money, right? If we have to work really hard, that it's not really exciting to be able to be like, You know what I want to work really hard like, and here's here's the interesting part about working really hard. There's, there's different types of hard that I think people get a little confused by because they're like, Well, surely I have to put in some effort. Well of course, like, again, just like a relationship. There's time and energy being dedicated to help the relationship thrive. And also when it's a relationship that you truly desire to flourish. It's a whole different vibe. Right verse says, Have you ever like gone to like a family function around the holidays where you're like, oh, I don't want to go, I know I should go, I need to go right that need energy again, it's a whole different fucking vibe. And so I really do like to explain that because people were like, We, I can just like, click my heels and money's gonna, like magically appear? Well, it actually can. The more you work on this, and also there's still effort, like, I am actively, you know, working on raising my frequency every single day and, and doing aligned action and doing my part and that I think that is a really big thing to hear, like the universe wants you to win. It is our, it is our job to do our part. And we have a huge part to do just like best friends, it can't be one sided, right? Like, maybe you've had a friend where you put in so much time and energy and like thoughtfulness and it wasn't or cippic reciprocated. And eventually, you kind of want to move on, right. And so money is very similar to that of like, it is truly a giving and receiving, giving and receiving type of vibe. And that's why we get to do our part. So I want you to get emotional today, I really want you to tap into what do I really, really desire to do that is going to require money, right? And you can go as far as your whole life, you if that's too overwhelming, and you want to like look at the next couple years, or the next year, or even the next six months to nine days you can decide what timeline you pick, but like, what is going? What money is it going to take to do the things that you want to do? Right? And you don't have to like number crunch or anything like that. But you can get an inventory of like, oh, yeah, I really have always wanted to go to Paris. Are you okay? If you never go to Paris in your lifetime, right? Like, life is so fucking precious. And you've got to make some really big girl decisions in regards to like, Am I willing to never go to Paris? Like, is that okay with me, or maybe you really deeply desire to have a after high school fund for your kids. So they've got a little messy mistake to either use for college or trade school or to put a down payment on a house like, or anything like that, like that's important to you, right? So you can do all different types of things, and get really emotional today and really think about it and see this list stacked up. And if you want to, you can even go from most important to not as important, I don't want to say least important but like, must happen, like hands down, like you absolutely deeply desire this to happen. And then it could be more of like, this would be nice to happen towards the bottom of the list. So they're all important, but we're like really prioritizing them. And that can be helpful to to really look at like, wow, there's still a lot of things on this list that like I would absolutely be heartbroken if I didn't make them happen, right? Like I love the saying, if it's to be it's up to me. And so I really want you to look at that list, and really look at your current reality. And are we on track? Are we getting there at a pace that feels good to you. And this is not to judge or shame ourselves. It's to be honest, open and honest. Because I'll give you a quick example. I was talking to a client the other day, and we were getting emotional about her money in the best way possible. And I was like, I want to know, like I want to know, like what's important to you financially. And she goes, I would love to pay for my daughter's private school with a digital product. She's like, that would just feel so empowering to me. And I loved her voicing that. So the rest of the call, we used it to strategize what that would look like how she could get there. And the interesting part is, she started with wanting to like sell a low ticket offer. And the more I was like working with her, I'm like it's going to take so many low ticket offers to make that dream happen. Are we making it harder than it needs to be right? And so we started to play with another offer. And she would only need like 40 sales to make this big goal happen, right like and so then it's like getting your brain on board building the belief That's absolutely possible, because it is absolutely possible. And her whole vibe was changing during that call, right? Like, we always get to, like build more belief, but like her vibe already was like shifting and changing. So I'm really excited for you to make this list. And the cool part is, I really want you to think of money, like a ladder, like, this is something I've taught to my clients, as my kiddo is up and awake, but I really want you to look at money as a ladder, okay? So all of your, all of your wants and desires, right and even your needs to because needs to take money like in regards to like food, water, shelter, etc, like basic needs, right? They require money, too. So you can look at all of this as like a ladder, right? And right now your current reality, you are on one step of the ladder, right. And you know where you're at on that ladder. And more likely than not, everything that you listed before, is higher up on the ladder, right. And so in order to make it happen, we've got to take some more steps, right? And probably tweak and modify things. And more. More often than not, it is so much mindset, like we're not gonna really do much different, which is interesting, like, of course, we want to try new strategies, but like, I've been doing video for years, I still do video, I just make more money now, right? Because I've been climbing the ladder longer and longer and longer and getting better and better and better. And even thinking about the ladder in regards to like investing. It used to terrify me to invest$100, right. And now I've invested over $120,000 Besides college into my learning my growth, my business, like pert, like getting coaches, mentors, masterminds, etc. That's not even including team. So there's no way I would have done that, like years ago, right. And so this is the beautiful part about doing this with ease flow and fun is we take these teeny, tiny steps. And knowing as we keep progressing, you're gonna get higher and up on the higher up on the ladder. And all these visions and desires that you wrote down, are somewhere up above the ladder, and we're gonna keep grabbing them, right, the more steps that we take and climb the ladder, you're gonna keep grabbing them and grabbing them and grabbing them. So you could even like draw a ladder and be like, Okay, I'm here, kind of like a mall map. I'm here. Here's like, all these things of like where they're at from a reach standpoint, and then could be like a really fun visual aid. So my biggest desire for you today is to really get that inventory. And you may already have it, but I think it's important to re connect, because something new may come up or maybe you're like, Yeah, I really don't desire that anymore. You are 1,000% able to change your motherfucking mind. Okay, so maybe you don't want some you don't want something anymore. Okay? Take it away, does it? It's more than okay. And then really thinking about this ladder of like, we want to continue to expand your comfort zone. And how we do that is teeny tiny steps that are aligned for your wealthiest self, my favorite way to make decisions is what would wealthiest Nellie do. Right? Just like I can always go deeper with my energetics of money. Our bank accounts can always go deeper, right, our wealth can always go deeper. And so this is absolutely a journey, not a destination. And it's one of the most life changing powerful journeys. So I love you so much if you're feeling called to apply to become a VIP clients so I can get way more hands on with these steps with you and hold you accountable and really look for the gaps and opportunities with what you're doing, how you're making money. I am fully stepping into devoting my time energy and knowledge and expertise with VIP clients only. And so I just invite you to apply and let's start the conversation. Have a great day and more importantly make it a great day is your head spinning? I hope you took so many notes and you feel so inspired. Time truly flies when you're learning about becoming so wealthy a ask. I hope you loved today's episode. That does it for us on the show. Don't forget every weekday we unlocked a another juicy money making episode. So be sure to subscribe or follow where you're listening to this. 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