Passive Income for Mamas

358. Quantum Leap Words of Encouragement Day 7

August 22, 2023 Nellie
Passive Income for Mamas
358. Quantum Leap Words of Encouragement Day 7
Show Notes Transcript

On today's episode of the Wake Up & Be Wealthy show, we will be continuing the week of sharing a sneak peak of the first 7 days of Words of Encouragement videos from our amazing Quantum Club group!

This episode touches on:

  • Whatever is meant to be made will be.
  • How we do most things is how we do all things.
  • Where are you duct taping in your life and business?
  • How to choose what feels good to you. 

If you've loved this, check out our Quantum Club!! We would love to encourage you and support you on a whole other level!

Create more EASE, FLOW & FUN in your business while making more and more money! 

We hope you've enjoyed this episode, because you totally deserve it. We are hear cheering you on and hope to have you back tomorrow for another fresh and juicy episode! Don't forget to subscribe, follow and leave a five-star review wherever you are listening. Make it a great day!!


I'm about to go V mom and I went and got my hair cut. Because, as you probably know, from past videos, I am growing this out as I am growing, it's not fun, like I'm growing up my hair as I'm growing. And I'll never stop growing. But there's been some massive shifts, which led to calling this quantum club. So it could be a powerful portal for you to as I am quantum leaping as I am digging deeper and deeper and applying different strategies and modalities and different ways of being I wanted to, I wanted to do this with other amazing women. And so we are in this together, and I just, I'm so excited that you're here, and so grateful for you here. So if you see any, like little hairs on my face, oh, gosh, there's like something going on. There's all the things, but I love you, you're amazing. If you have not watched the deep training for this month, please make time for it. Because, uh, not even make time, create time, you don't have to watch my face, like, put your earbuds in, go for a walk, do the dishes, you know, full laundry, have me in the background as you're like doing some things in your business. But like, there could just be something in there. It's an hour and 20 minutes. But I really, really deeply think it's going to support you in regards to like, expanding your comfort zone. And so the the message that came through loud and clear today, because as you know, I don't plan these, I trust that whatever is meant to be is made will be. So this is a funny story. Because again, I like to storytel There are no accidents, my nail color is green for money. And I have green duct tape from our Disney Experience from a couple of weeks ago. But the reason why it's in my jeep is because I don't even know if you're gonna be able to see it. But my whatever this is called sunvisor. I was like, what's the word, and it's broken. And I don't know how it happened. This is a new vehicle like new ish and 2021 or 2020. But it hangs down. And so here's the interesting part. I noticed it probably in June. And I allowed it to be there. Even though it was annoying the crap out of me. I was like, moving it up. And it was falling down as I'm driving, which is probably not the safest thing, right. But I was allowing it to happen even though I was frustrated and annoyed. It just kept happening kept happening kept happening. And then when I got duct tape from for Disney, I was like, Oh, I will duct tape it right, because I just haven't had the mental bandwidth to go in and get it fixed. I know that it will take you know, several hours and I just haven't had the capacity yet to do it. And so it's not to say that it's not important. But there's this in between, I call this the messy middle of we get to still enjoy and have ease flow and fun in the messy middle. So like maybe your goal right now is 10k months or you want to work less in your business and live more. Or maybe your goal is health and fitness. Like yes, this is a moneymaker membership but like how we do most things is how we do most things. And so I was excited to get the duct tape because I duct taped this to my ceiling a couple days ago. And I was like yes, this is amazing. So I did it a few days ago. And it keeps falling down because it gets hot. Obviously duct tape isn't it's like a band aid, right. So although I am expanding my comfort zone with my sun visor, and I have more visibility, it's still not the end solution. I am duct taping it, which is putting a bandaid on it. And it's still annoying me because I've tried all different ways to tape it. Like I've done an X I've done a cross I've made it longer. I've done like the side over here on top of the this piece right here. And it just it's getting hot. The duct tape can't withstand the heat, right? And so it's like, oh, we like this is a quick fix, but it's not the end all be solution. So the reason why I say all of this, it's because we're all human. And I know the minute that I like go to get it fixed, it's gonna be like so nice, right? So much easier because this is takes time and energy to keep applying the duct tape. Right. And so we get to enjoy the messy middle and do it with ease flow and fun. So although the duct tape is a great way to expand my comfort zone around the sunvisor it's not the end all be all. And I know that which is also going to activate me in the best way possible to speed up scheduling the appointment right? And how what I talked about in the training yesterday was why do we let things get to the point where it's to pay until it's too frustrating. It is a way of self harm. And it may sound silly, that it's just a sunvisor. Like, isn't that big of a deal? But like, again, how we do most things is how we do most things. So the question I'm asking myself today, and the question I want to encourage you to ask yourself is where are you duct taping? AKA putting a bandaid on things, in your finances, in different parts of your business, with relationships with your home, like, let's just look at it all. If you're willing, if that feels too overwhelming to you, then I encourage you, again, we're expanding your comfort zone, everyone's is going to look at their process, their journey is gonna look a little different. And it's all beautiful and amazing. So if you don't want to look at everything, if that feels, whew, that's too heavy, Nelly, I'm not ready for that. Listen to yourself and say, Okay, I'm gonna pick one category and journal about it. Where are you duck taping? In your life and your business, you can zoom in and go to your health and fitness, you can go to your relationship with You, yourself. With your significant other with clients, you can look at your systems, you can look at your team members, you can look at your business finances, you can look at your personal finances, you can look at your clutter, you can look at you know, your systems in your business already said that, but your systems in your home, or lack thereof, right? Like, if you want to look at all of it, look at all of it. If you want to like zero in on like one specific category, do that. But like, the journaling will be huge. And journaling doesn't have to be in a notebook, you can verbally journal that feels good to you. You can if you have a whiteboard, you can doodle, you can talk to a friend that's still journaling. The whole point of journaling is getting it out whether it be you're voicing it, you're writing it. If typing feels good to you, you're typing it, if you want to body double with somebody else, and like their energy would really help you. But where are you duct taping? And it doesn't feel good, right? Like, I honestly could say like, if the visor the sun visor would stay with the duct tape, and the heat wouldn't make it keep falling down and keep falling down multiple times a day. I probably not get it fixed for longer, right? Because it's like, okay, it worked. Right? The duct tape worked. It's not a long term solution. But it's also not annoying me anymore. Right? So there could be some things that show up for you. But they are they're working for now. And that's okay. But what does not feel good that you are choosing to duct tape, choosing to put a bandaid on it and it just doesn't feel great. I really been looking at this in my business and my life this week specifically, and made many am I and I always feel called to like spell it like teeny tiny moves of what is showing up for me that does not feel good does, it feels like I'm putting a bandaid on it. And it's just not working. It's just not working. And I owe it to myself, I deserve to speak up for myself and it is no one else's responsibility. But mine. But mine, I cannot be mad at anyone else that cannot be resemble anyone else like I guess I can but at the end of the day, like being mad at somebody else, or resentful or anything else in between isn't going to fix the duct tape. So when I actually like shift the narrative back to myself of like, yeah, this doesn't feel good. And also, I get to speak up and do something about it. Right. I had a client not too long ago, she sent me a telegram. And she was like, Hey, this is not feeling good. And I really like I need something different. And I really like she's one of my longest clients. And I was like, absolutely. And we had a call yesterday to like, unpack everything, what does she need, like I'm here to help you like I want you to be successful. And I'm also not a mind reader and it like so it's so beautiful to have clients that have the the emotional intelligence of like something doesn't feel great. And also I know we can come up with a solution. And so I I gave her so much acknowledgement yesterday, privately of like, thank you so much first for speaking up for yourself and also giving me the opportunity as your guide as your support system to co create something that does feel good for you. And we like left that call feeling so energized that I know that alone is going to help her quantum leap. But she created it. I'm a part of it. But she took that initiative. She knows that it's an inside job. She knows that it's her responsibility and also she doesn't have to figure it out on her own right it can be a both and and also take the take the responsibility back. Okay, you could even like get really woowoo and buy duct tape and start to write hangs down on like little pieces of duct tape of what you are duct taping in your life and your business. If you wanted to, you don't have to that just came to me like that could be like really like symbolic of like, yeah, this doesn't feel good. And maybe you like, tear a few pieces off of duct tape. And you choose a number energetically that feels good to you. And you sit and just stare at the duct tape this literally coming through me energetically, so maybe someone needs to do this or I don't know. So you could look at like, maybe you picked seven pieces of duct tape and you just look and say, Okay, what are the seven things that I'm choosing to duct tape and they don't feel great. It doesn't even have to be to the point where it feels so painful and so overwhelming. Like, we definitely want to pay attention to those but like, what feels like, uneasy, yucky. I talked about that a lot yesterday. That's where we go. And we get excited. Your your brain does not know the difference between nervous and excited. And so when we lean into like, oh my gosh, I'm so excited to to work on this right too. And we can take one piece of duct tape at a time, right? It starts easy. Again, we don't have to go 10 levels deep immediately, it will, it'll rock your nervous system. So pick the easiest piece of duct tape. And we start there. And let's do little teeny tiny steps within that thing. And see where that goes. Right? See how that feels like be open to all possibilities. And most importantly, speak up that you deserve. To feel amazing. That is a basic human need. And your birthright. And after after being 18 I think it's your I believe it's your parents duty and responsibility as parents to help you a ton up to 18. Because our brain our brain isn't even fully developed until like your mid 20s, which is terrifying. And also exciting. We're gonna focus on the exciting. But I do believe your parents have a huge piece of that. Which can we can talk about that another day. And also, after that, it's almost like passing the baton of like, you are an adult, this is your responsibility. Take the power back, start to speak up for yourself start to create the reality that you desire. That feels so fucking good to you. Because no one knows, right? Like, everyone's flavor is a little bit different. Some people want to have a tiny home versus a big ass mansion. Or they want to live on a boat versus an RV, right? Like, only you know what, no, knows what feels really good to you. And not just tangible things like feelings, right? Like, you know, in your heart of hearts, what feels good to you. And too often, we neglect we push our feelings aside for everyone else. Everyone else. And it's it gets to be a booth. And of course we want to take in consideration everyone else that's important to you and also always start and end with you. That's how I'm going to end this encouragement video, start and end with you. Every single day all day long. How can we make this easier? How can we stop duct taping things that don't feel good? Right? Everything gets to feel good. It is your birthright and also it's your responsibility no one else has ever. People can help you people can support you people who cheer you on the end of the day it starts and ends with you. And you've got this you can do this. You wouldn't be here watching this video. If you couldn't. So I believe in you. You're amazing. It starts and ends with you